Thursday, April 28, 2011

i don't really understand the "adding" people on Facebook that you do not know...

soo....i have a problem with people, well specifically my boyfriend, adding people that they/he does not know. what is the point in being their friend if you do not know them and have never talked to them before?  THERE ISN'T ONE!!! i don't think it would be that big a deal if the people my boyfriend adds were not girls, but they are; most of them are still in high school and he doesn't know them.  he was home schooled and did not go to my high school so therefore he does not know these people he adds.

another reason i probably wouldn't have such a big problem with it is if a while back he hadn't created a facebook page named "thought they were hot so i added them".  doesn't that seem a little fishy to you?  just knowing that he created a page like that and i see random girls that he has recently became friends with makes me think, "does he think they are attractive or something, what's the deal?"  i don't understand this at all.

yes i will admit that there are people who i am friends with that i added way before my boyfriend and i were dating that i need to delete.  i plan on doing this over my summer break.  to defend myself though, ever since we started dating i have not added some random guy that i had no idea who they were.

this subject is a very touchy one when it comes to our relationship because it makes me really mad and he doesn't understand why.  he assumes that i am "snooping" on his page 24/7 but that is not the case, i do not go to his page to try and find something to be mad over.  facebook sometimes does not show the most recent things so therefore it shows what happened so many hours ago and things pop up on there sometimes.  but whatever, i don't really feel the need to justify my getting mad because he shouldn't be posting things/adding people on facebook if he doesn't want me to see, plain and simple.  

"By all means, let's not confuse ourselves with the facts!"

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